Don’t fault yourself, blame the stars!
Do you find yourself falling for the same kind of guy over and over again? You swear to yourself that you’re not going to fall for another man with commitment issues or one who refuses to grow up. Yet you find yourself involved with the exact type of guy you swore to never be with again.
We all do it. When you do exactly what you promised yourself you wouldn’t do, you feel foolish and irritated with yourself. The thing is, maybe you keep going for the same kind of guys for a specific reason; it’s not always a bad thing.
You may be attracting the perfect person for you. And according to an article on Cosmopolitan, your zodiac sign may influence the guys you fall for.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You’re attractive and you care about people. You tend to go out with good-looking and kind men — nothing wrong with that. The problem is that they have a tendency to want more of your time and energy than what you want to give.
You can try being honest with them, ask them to give you some space or ghost them. Since you can be a non-texter-backer, if you just block them on your phone, they may not know you’re done with them and may invade your space in other ways.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
You have a (justified) reputation for being stubborn and having a strong point of view. You’re not great on the concept of compromise or giving a little. And yet, it’s the passionate and determined guy that always seems to catch your eye. It’s great for a while, but what happens when the two of you lock horns and neither of you will concede?
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
You can take something that’s boring and dull and turn it into a fantastically fun event. And you do it with your amazing conversation skills and quick wit. You like guys that are like you: charismatic and adventurous. If a guy is a risk-taker and being a boss, you’re hooked. But he needs to be as fascinating and funny as you or you’re done.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Yes, you’re an emotional being, someone whose emotions run deep and you prefer guys who have a lot of personality but who will also give you a certain amount of emotional stability. If they’re a party animal or someone who spends all their free time out and about, they may not be a good fit. There’s no shame in being a homebody, and you need someone who loves to chill at home.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You love to show off and be the center of attention, and you thrive on guys who are super-intelligent and creative — as long as they’re not competitive with you. You want someone to inspire you with their uniqueness, enthusiasm, and general love of life. Negative Nelsons need not apply.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You tend to go for artistic drama kings who feed off your supportive and nurturing qualities. This can bite you in the butt if you end up with some jerk who treats you less like a significant other and more like support staff. You deserve to get as much back as you give.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You’re captivated by a guy with energy, confidence, and charm — as long as they can turn it down sometimes; too much of an energetic spirit and you’ll become overwhelmed and exhausted. You like it when a guy shows his interest in you by being persistent and creative. It might be old-school, but you want a guy to really wow you.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
You’re serious, intense, passionate and want someone who will be there by your side for the long haul. You can be kind of moody and erratic, and your partner needs to be able to handle your ever-changing emotions and strong sex drive. If they can’t handle the heat, they need to recognize it and not waste your time.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
You love adventure, travel, new experiences, and guys who are intelligent and open-minded. You want a guy who will be with you on every adventure you go on, not a stick in the mud.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You’re dependable, hard-working, and independent, and you make those qualities sexy and appealing. You love sensitive, loyal and affectionate guys who support and nurture you. The thing is, you don’t have time to play head games at all, so if that’s what he’s offering, you’re better off just spending time alone practicing self-care.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Because you’re so open to all different kinds of people, everyone feels very comfortable with you. You’re especially drawn to artistic, fearless guys with a strong sense of self. There’s just something about a guy who knows themselves well that really gets you going. If they make you feel safe and like hot lava cake inside, then all the better.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You love dreams, romance and fantasy, yet you’re drawn to guys that are solid, practical, and who bring structure and support into your dreamy world. But if they’re too rigid and lack imagination, they’ll never understand you or your world. You need to find someone who isn’t completely one way or the other, but a good mix of creative and pragmatic.